When this email break up happened my friend Christine, who I dated but didn't work out, was very strong on me calling L to have my final say. An old habit that came to me as I lie here in bead tonight is my bad habit of accepting shit. I grew up that way and it still hangs around, but at least I do spot it from time to time. So I got up, turned on my laptop, and wrote out a email to L.
L,
Since we never had a final talk this medium will have to do. I was very surprised and hurt when I read your email and that it would end this way. Throughout our time together we talked about everything and I am still speechless that you would choose the cowardly way out.
Please give Trevor a scratch behind his right ear for me.
Goodbye,
Michael
Hopefully this will give me some measure of closure.
8 comments:
I think it should be something asking her to be courageous & explain why so she & you will have closure. I hate when people do this & don't explain fully. It is not good for either.
I hope so too. I am so sorry, Mike.
Terra
you said/did in this email what you felt needed to be done.
I wish for you closure of this matter so you may feel at ease and feel peace again.
Take care,
Gem
A similar situation happened to me once; and I was so upset b/c I never had the closure I needed to move on. He got his closure and had moved on long before I even knew what had happened.
better days are coming!!
love you Mike!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maria
I hope that made you feel better.. i think she is just afriad of commitment and confrontation...
Lyn
I hope so, also. Did she call you Michael? Do you like being referred to that way sometimes? I notice you didn't wish her a "fare thee well" with it, but, hey, neither had she. I'm still sorry it happened like this. Closure and your say is good.
Good for you, Mike! Actually, I think you were very classy and gentlemanly in your response to her! It's important to say what we feel and not push it down inside!
Hugs
jackie
you and L are done? I'm so sorry. Since I was sick I'm so far behind in things.
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