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This is a repost from thisismis72's journal.  It was good.  I remember when I use to teach women's self defense years ago and all the things we had to teach women to be prepared for.  However I do like the new tactic it their of preventing rape.  This is talking to men about how it would be for them to be raped/sodomized.  It's very graphic and drives the message home.  For me it is always dealing with the problem the rapists then teaching victims to be high alert every second of your life. 

 

SEEN THIS IN ANOTHER JOURNAL AND THOUGHT IS SHOULD BE POSTED

A lot has been said about how to prevent rape.
Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. Women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. Fuck, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all.

Instead of that bullshit, how about:

If a woman is drunk, don't rape her.
If a woman is walking alone at night, don't rape her.
If a women is drugged and unconscious, don't rape her.
If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't rape her.
If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 a.m., don't rape her.
If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you're still hung up on, don't rape her.
If a woman is asleep in her bed, don't rape her.
If a woman is asleep in your bed, don't rape her.
If a woman is doing her laundry, don't rape her.
If a woman is in a coma, don't rape her.
If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't rape her.
If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't rape her.

If a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don't rape her.
If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't rape her.
If your step-daughter is watching TV, don't rape her.
If you break into a house and find a woman there, don't rape her.
If your friend thinks it's okay to rape someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend.

If your "friend" tells you he raped someone, report him to the police.
If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and it's your turn, don't rape her, call the police and report him as a rapists.

Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, and sons of friends it's not okayto rape someone.

Don't just tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape.
Don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x.
Don't imply that it's in any way her fault.
Don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl.
Don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can, too, help yourself.

If you agree, repost it. It's that important.

Kinky or Not?

I don't know if something is in the air, the bizarre warm weather, or I missed something on Jerry Springer.  But I have had so many conversations on sex this week with people.  It was a little out of the ordinary.  The funny thing that came out of most of the conversations was what people think kinky is.  You say to-may-toe, I say toe-ma-toe.  I was surprised by what people thought was kinky even though they were quite open in their ways.  I found out about myself to.  I seemed to classify what I won't do as kinky and what I will as not.  The only exception was food which I don't like to play with.  I started to put the list down, but I think the AOL police would be all over me.  Oh well.  Wish I thought of that before I started writing.

Out of Synch

Over the last few days as I review myself.  I realized that my self perceived self and who I really am is still off.  I wanted to meet new friends as of late and I have been doing that.  Quite successfully.  That old message that I don't fit in and that something is wrong with me is still there somewhere.  Very glad that it is not affecting me.  The funny thing is that as I become more "me" the easier it is.  Also with that I am attracting better people.  People who are silly and witty like me instead of people who I need to kick in the butt to get moving which is a blessing.

What's All this Bling

So I finally know what "bling" is.  Hey I don't keep up with all this stuff.  Actually nor would I want to.  My bling is my Timex watch and I don't see it expanding in the future.  Unless someone plays a trick on me when I'm dead and decorated my corpse with all this damn bling stuff.  If that happens then you are going to see some poltergiest sh*t!  Anyway I don't get it.  As I never understand why every few years a cosmetics company tries to sell men skin stuff and cosmetics.  This year happens to be one of those years.  We may fall for all the emails and IM's from 19 F bad horny girls, but this stuff give me a break.  We may think with our smaller heads most of the day, but even they don't want this crap.  I like the simple choices like going to buy a suit and the hardest choice is do I want black, gray, or dark blue.  No food colored choices.  That's not to say I don't like a lot of color just not on me.  My question is what do you woman think of guys and bling?

A new journal

I started a new journal.  It'about me and it is darker.  So be prepared if you look.  Don't worry this one will continue.

http://journals.aol.com/mikev009/CrystalClearDaysofInsanity/

Mike

I Luuuv When A Good Plan Falls Apart

!#%$#%$#%^$^%$!!!!  Okay I had my 3 year old tantrum.  Oh I am so angry.  I had it all planned to get my Medicare payments today to pays bills.  When the envelope came and it was empty of a check.  So I called them.  Finally got someone on the phone telling them I had spoke to someone 2 weeks ago and what ever mistake was preventing payments before was fixed.  Well they forgot to tell me their was another problem. @%$#%$#%$E^%!!!!!  Sorry. So it's another 2 weeks for money and I HATE sending bills in late.  On the plus side the lady I did speak to today was very nice and told me where to go on the web so I wouldn't have to call to get faster responses.  So I do thank her, but about 2 hours of anger is finally dissipating. 

I Hate the First

Ah the first of the month.  I hate it.  Bills are due and I ma still waiting for checks to come in the mail.  It's the usual thrill ride.  Which will come first the due dates or the money.  After a year of this I have gotten quite use to it.  Now I don't start freaking out until the first of the month instead of the second of the previous month. 

So it is time for a Dead Man's Walk.  I have my flyers and my winter jacket.  I will walk the streets in search of victims.  Nah.  I'll just drop them in people's mailboxes.  It'll keep me out of trouble.