Wednesday, November 7, 2007

Second Thoughts

Working on not being so black & white with Spa Girl. While I like her part of me is leery to get involved with a women who is still getting her head put together. I remember what my therapist said to me when I was talking about dating again. She said Michael any healthy women will run the other way from a person just getting out of a marriage. While I believe it is 16 months since her separation or she had a husband thrown in jail and left. So I have to remind myself that we can always be friends. I'm not quite sure where I am going with her. For now I am enjoying the ride.

I called Eric tonight and he asked when we were getting together next. I asked did he get my letter. He said he did, but forgot to read it. So like any kid he went straight for the cards and forgot the letter. LOL. So he wants to bring his new bike with us so he can learn to ride. So we'll be very busy with boxing lessons and bike riding.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think putting our heads together is a life long process.  

Terra

Anonymous said...

This is how I thought about N.  Do I want to help him through this emotional process, like I'd helped another great guy?  But, eh, he has a lot to work through that's not even related to the divorce.  Maybe Spa Girl doesn't know where she's headed with things, either.  One step at a time, and sometimes, a friend with a romantic bent to it, isn't such a bad thing.

So, when WILL you see Eric again?