Friday, October 5, 2007

My Thoughts


Well after my entry earlier today MK Lady gave me a call to apologize for not making the cookout. Since she's a girl I asked her about the ring thing. She like most of you said that it's a finger and if a decorative ring fits it goes on. WTH? It's the finger? It should be as empty and a nun's hoo haa! Come on ladies work with us. Guys have a hard enough time figuring you out as it is. Now rings that don't mean anything. Anyway I drove past the salon on my way for errands and Spa Girl was right there walking in front of me. She was also on her cellphone chatting away so I just honked and waved as I drove by. Guess it will have to be another time.


Pigs must be flying cause I had a nice conversation with the ex about the phone and Eric. She had gotten no messages and was wondering why I hadn't called. So she said she would get her phone looked at to see what the matter is. Do I believe her? Who the hell knows, sorry to say. She did state that her dad had taken a turn for the worse, but it seems he is left home alone since she said he won't pick up the house phone. I did realize why she didn't put him in a facility. All of his money would be funneled into his care and then she would have to get a job. She may be nuts, but she ain't stupid. Through all of this I did get a chance to actually talk with Eric. It's been a few weeks.


My Mom still can't use her right hand, but can raise the arm. She's not talking as much and I don't know why. Yes and no questions she'll just shake her head, but more complex she'll answer. This has started since last weeks TIA. So at her meeting next week I'll ask that she start speech therapy since if she looses that she'll reallygo down hill. Talking to my brother today I told him it's time for Mom to go. She's just fading way bit by bit and it's a real shame.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I don't consider wearing my "Mother's Ring" nothing.  I put it on my left ring finger for a reason.  I wanted it to be on the finger that is closest to my heart!  For sentimental reasons.  I don't really care what guys think about it.  If they want to know bad enough, they can ask.  Sorry if that sounds bitchy, but it's the truth! ;p

Hugs
Jackie

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time with your Mother...smiles...
                                                                                            Lovins...'
                                                                                            TrayCee

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry to read about your mom's struggles with arm movement and speech....sending warm thoughts and prayers.
(about the ring---it's just a ring on a finger..ask her if it means anything?)
Take care,
Gem :-)
P.S.
Thank you soo much for the birthday greetings--it's greatly appreciated.
:-)