The Other Woman

I had a few people ask about the other woman I stated before.  I believe I talked about her in my other journal, but not here.  Please don't ask what I named her there.  Anyway it was a 3 month relationship if it could be called that many years ago.  People always had a hard time understanding it.  Since conversation was limited to, "hi, missed you, bye, have to get back to work."  Anything else were just moans and groans.  It was a relationship of sex.  I was younger and I thought hey sex all the time when we are together.  No complicated communication, no money being spent, and borderline illegal sex.  I swear it was like living in a porno movie cause it was all a fantasy.  I knew the other woman was borderline obsessed with me, but I knew that could turn around in a second.  Since I did see it every once in a while.  Topped off that any answer she every gave me was opposite to any physical evidence.  "Like is that a wedding ring?"  "No I just like wearing it.  I can take it off if you like."  However I was young and the sex was great.  So as long as she wasn't a man I was okay with it.  The sad realization I had was that sex alone doesn't make a relationship.  I was really shocked at the time since this was like a dream relationship.  Like all other aspects of my life I am always striving to better it or move it to the next level.  To my surprise I have bought a single story house without any additional floors and their was some unwritten law that I couldn't make any more.  I think she would have wanted to, but without any truthful information coming I ended it.  Actually it was like the beginning of the Six Million Dollar man with him crashing.  It ended and started up several times until I finally did crawl out with a lesson learned.